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Obituary

Williamette “Willie” Desch Shafer

May 21, 1934 - December 2, 2022

Williamette “Willie” Desch Shafer, 88, of Lincoln passed away on December 2, 2022. Willie was born on May 21, 1934 in Grand Island, NE to Williamette (Williams) and Robert B. Desch. Willie joined her husband, the love of her life and best friend, Larry, “her funny man”, on December 2, 2022.

Willie attended Central City schools, graduating in 1952 and then moved to Lincoln where she attended the University of Nebraska graduating with Bachelors of Arts in Journalism and Education in 1956. While in college she was initiated into the Alpha Chi Omega sorority in 1953 and was Xi Chapter President in 1955.  She was a devoted Alpha Chi, holding many leadership positions including: Chapter Advisor, Province President, National Council Member, Xi Chapter House Corporation Board President, National House Corporation Board member, Kappa Kappa Alumnae member, Panhellenic Volunteer, National Alumnae Appreciation Award recipient, and attended over 20 Alpha Chi National Conventions where she was ALWAYS the life of the party. Alpha Chi and her many sisters remained near and dear to her throughout her life.

She taught English and Journalism at Millard Lefler Middle School for five years before taking a break to raise three, often non-compliant, children. She also fit in getting her Master of Arts in Education and was appointed to and served on the Lincoln Board of Education, including serving as President, when the kids occasionally behaved. Once she’d done the best she could with them, she went back to teaching at Lefler where she impacted thousands of middle school students until retiring from a total of 25 years of teaching in 1999.

Willie was initiated into PEO in 1970. She was President of Chapter K in 2006-07, and Vice President 2011-12. She was incredibly active locally and nationally. Her PEO sisters were with her always.

In 2002, Willie’s Underwear Project was born. Willie, along with her PEO group, Chapter K, saw a need and filled it. Now, all PEO Chapters in Lincoln assist. ISSUE: Students in LPS have accidents during the school day. Willie: We can’t have students sitting in the nurse’s office, they NEED to be in the classroom learning. SOLUTION: Provide undies, socks, sweatpants, and t-shirts and get them back in the classroom. There you go! A giant feat accomplished by Willie and her crew of volunteers and generous donations. The Project will continue!

Willie had SO many circles. One of her proudest titles was being a “Hooker”! She loved her community of rug hookers and ladies who did appliqué. She was in numerous bridge groups, one dating back over 60 years! She was a member of the Daughters of the Nile and the Order of the Eastern Star. She and Larry were proud members of the Friends of Lied and supported the arts fiercely. They had been members of Westminster Presbyterian Church since 1965. Willie was nominated for the Inspire Lincoln Award for her unwavering service to the community and LPS students specifically, and received the Governor’s Points of Light Award in 2014. She taught Mystery Writing for Bright Lights for many years, even representing Bright Lights in the Star City Holiday Parade dressed up as their star!

Willie is survived by her daughter Met (Dan Searcy), Lincoln; sons Mike (Nancy), Covington, KY, Mark (Jenn), Manassas, VA; grandchildren Billie Gallagher (Alex Adams), Joey Gallagher and Virginia and Mary Shafer; god-daughter Debbi Walsh (Tom), Sun City West, AZ, brother, Bob Desch (Phyllis), Portland, OR, and her best friend and “Bookend”, Ane Banwell. Preceded in death by the love of her life, Larry, her parents and brother Jim.

Celebration of Life open house: Saturday, December 17, 2022 from 2:00pm-5:00pm. Roper and Sons South Lincoln, 3950 Hohensee Drive (SW corner of 40th and Yankee Hill Rd). Private family inurnment at Wyuka Cemetery.

Memorials may be directed to Willie’s Underwear Project (we know, no surprise there) or Xi Chapter Educational Corporation of Alpha Chi Omega reoccurring scholarship. Both of which are tax deductible.

Services

December17

Celebration of Life

CST

Roper & Sons South Chapel

3950 Hohensee Drive (40th & Yankee Hill)
Lincoln, NE 68516

(402) 261-5907

Share a Memory or Condolence

December 14, 2022

Willie was a ‘gift’ to me when I met her at AXO Convention in 2010! I was a newly elected President of our LHC and was floundering! Willie was so very happy to share experiences and give me guidance. I am forever grateful to her for all of her help and the wonderful friendship we were able to share through Alpha Chi Omega!

– Rozanne King, Delta Nu Chapter
December 12, 2022

When I stepped on a bee, Miz Shafer made a paste of baking soda and water to extract the stinger. I thought she was magic! The old Plymouth neighborhood was the best neighborhood to be a kid…such fond memories of their house. The last time I went back to Lincoln I went by our old house and don’t ya know, Willie came outside and we got to briefly catch up. Our most sincere condolences to your family, from ours.

– Bryson (Watson) Gappa
December 12, 2022

Willie & I taught at Lefter together back in the day! We were the VIP liaisons with Bryan Hospital & there was never a dull moment when visited Bryan for meetings or to deliver goodies. Willie always made me laugh & she even threw a baby shower for our first kid!! Of what fun we had!!! Prayers to your family & know that your Mom lived life to the fullest!

– Becky Kruger
December 11, 2022

I first met Willie and Larry at Leon’s, I was the Meat Mgr and one of the owners. For over 20 years every Saturday morning I’d wrap up there selection, Willie Loved the Prime Rib Eye steaks we had Larry wanted Tenderloin. I was invited many times to come have a Hot Toddie with them. Willie had a Fun Loving Spirit. She will be missed. RIP

– Roy Toy
December 11, 2022

My heart is broken. We have lost a mighty giant in a very tiny lady! I can’t express my gratitude enough for a woman I loved dearly and respected greatly. She touched so many people! She helped countless students in so many ways. She was a dear friend, a PEO sister and a God loving woman! I know I will see her in heaven. God bless your family, Willie.

– Anne Bremer
December 10, 2022

Willie was always a mainstay at the Alpha Chi house, both when I was an undergrad in the 1980s and as chapter advisor in the 1990s. Any time I was in Lincoln for an Alpha Chi event, Willie was there. Always real, always strong, Willie was an amazing woman who you could tell loved her family, as she talked about them often! I didn’t realize we were also PEO sisters, and that she was active in Eastern Star to my Job’s Daughters. Willie has left an amazing legacy. She will be missed by many, including me.

– Laurie Yocom

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