Katherine K. Starkweather

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Katherine Kay Starkweather (DeLancey) was born August 28th, 1943, to Wayne and Hope (Morey) DeLancey in Lincoln, NE. She passed away February 2, 2025. She worked as a bookkeeper for 45 years for the Hutson family at Jack & Jill-SaveMart grocery store. She enjoyed camping and fishing with her husband, Richard, at Harlan County Reservoir. She was also a bookkeeper for Richard while he was an OTR trucker. She enjoyed canning, getting her hair done and watching Judge Judy. Kay loved her canine companions and spoiled them with much love.

Preceded in death by her parents, husband Richard, brother Kenneth DeLancey. Survived by her daughter Lanna (Mike) Shrader of Eagle, NE; son Danny (Denise) Starkweather of Franklin, NC; sister Virginia Porter of Fremont, NE; brothers Wayne Allen DeLancey of Lincoln, NE and Jim (Sherry) DeLancey of Omaha, NE; sister Linda (Bill) Schmailzl of Lincoln, NE; granddaughters Briana (Sam) Swartz, Jenni Plowman and Molly (Anthony) Perkins; great grandchildren McKinley Swartz, James Swartz, Laikynn Perkins, Teagan Perkins and numerous other family members and friends.

Funeral service: 11:00 am Friday, February 7, 2025, Roper and Sons Midtown Chapel, 4300 ‘O’ St.

Visitation from 4-7 pm Thursday, February 6, 2025, Roper and Sons Midtown Chapel.

Memorials to the family.

Link to Service Recording: https://vimeo.com/1054540859/3bdc780c6c?share=copy

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Services

February6

Visitation

4:00 pm-7:00 pm CST

Roper & Sons Midtown Chapel

4300 O St.
Lincoln, NE 68510

(402) 476-1225

February7

Funeral Service

11:00 am CST

Roper & Sons Midtown Chapel

4300 O St.
Lincoln, NE 68510

(402) 476-1225

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February 5, 2025

Aunt Kay is a one of a kind! She was kind to every one and loved by all. She loved her family and her home. Dick was the love of her life, the two of them were perfect for each other. Right now, I’m positive she is telling Dick what he needs to be doing I can also see Dick at this time going to his garage to smoke and watch tv. I know the two of you are once again one and happy to be together. I miss you Aunt Kay and love you very much.

– Linda Gana, Jack, Jimbo and their families

February 5, 2025

Dear KK, I will deeply miss you & always remember the good times we shared together in growing up & into adult hood. The many Christmases & Thanksgivings we all spent with you and the laughs we had. Many times we’d say, “KK we need you to make the gravy & dressing”! As you were the best at it more than we were. Those were your expertise at the holidays. I’m good in knowing that your at peace in many ways but very sad that your gone & I wont be able to call you or talk to you in person anymore. Know you will always be in my heart and never forgotten.

– Your loving baby sister, Linda

February 4, 2025

I am saddened by the loss of my cousin Kay. I have fond memories of her throughout my life. When I was a youngman in HighSchool I played FB, There was never a time she wouldn’t call me over to the stands after games end as her daughter Lanna was a Cheerleader and to watch the games. So many memories to share this one was special cause she told me how good i did. I could write about more but so many. I spent the last few days with family in her room my heart goes out to you all. I LOVE YOU KAY 💘

– Michael Helmstadter

February 4, 2025

I remember fondly the weekends we would spend at aunt Kay’s house. We had so much fun exploring and just being kids. Aunt Kay was always a loving person and fun to be with. She will always be in my heart. To the family, I know nothing I can say will make the pain go away. I do know she is with her beloved Dick. RIP in peace aunt Kay, know that you will be loved always.

– Cheri Hutson

February 3, 2025

To our loving family, Our hearts ache with you during this difficult time. We’re sending all our love, hugs, and prayers your way. Aunt Kay was truly a treasure – her kindness, generosity, and beauty left an unforgettable mark on our lives. We’ll cherish the memories of her sparkling smile, her warm hospitality, and her unwavering love for all of us. May her legacy live on in our hearts and may she find eternal peace.